Intimate Questions

Wheel entries:

3 part question: A) Do you think it’s hard for couples who love each other to talk about their sex lives? B) Do you think it’s easier or harder than for couples who are very close? C) do you personally feel free to be able to talk about sexual desires or problems without judgement?
What is the sexiest non-porn movie you’ve ever watched?
If 1 is gentle caressing and light kissing and missionary position and 10 is paddles and whips and lots of leather, what number describes your level of roughness or gentleness?
Not emotionally but physically, what is the most intense orgasm for you: oral, penetrative, or self?
Do you like quiet/non verbal or louder/verbal/maybe some dirty talking sex best?
Do you like to wear lingerie or sexual clothing items. Role play items? Which ones excite you to wear? Which ones excite you to see? Would you wear any now?
How do you feel about being spanked by someone in an intimate setting? How about light biting or nail scratching?
Using 3 words describe the 3 things you want sex to be.
Before our physical relationship, did you masturbate? How often? Toys or hands? What would you think about to get you there?
This is a fun one. What is something you’ve fantasized about but would NEVER under any circumstances do in real life?
Everyone has touched themselves or masturbated. How do you feel about touching yourself as part of sex with your partner? How do you feel about them touching themselves as part of your sexual together time? Are either a turn on?
Does talking about sex with your partner turn you on?
5 rapid fire questions: A) somebody is getting tied up in bed. You or your partner? B) You are picking the movie you both will watch to “get in the mood”. Is it 50 shades of grey or a Rom Com? C) would you rather your partner read an erotic story to you or you read one to them. D) you and your partner have to go to either a strip club or an adult store together. Where are you going? E) you or your partner is masturbating to an orgasm while the other watches. Are you watching or are you playing?
What are your 3 favorite places on your body to be kissed, licked, or nibbled?
Do you feel confident with your body image and performance or are you self conscious? On a scale of 1-10 with 10 being very free and confident, where are you? If self conscious, do you think that causes some limitations on what you might do or wear when intimate?
Just for fun, (because some answers are hilarious and others have some real meaning) list 3 things that’s are definitely off the table and not up for discussion in your sex life.
Play on words here in 3 parts. What is the most beautiful part of you partner? What is the most touchable part of your partner? What part of your partner sexually turns you on the most by sight?
Do you feel you have enough sex in your life?
If you had to choose just 1, would you rather have long sex sessions less frequently or quickies more frequently?
Without asking them, what 1 thing do you think your partner would change about your sex life?
Have you ever wanted to explore blind folds or hand cuffs or being tied up at some level? If so, is it more appealing to you to be the one tied, cuffed or blindfolded or for your partner?
If same and predictable is a 1 and exploration and adventurous is a 10, where are you on the scale of how you want your sex life to be from now on?
Complete the sentence: 2 things Ive learned about myself sexually since being with you is………
Embarrassment and funny time. Through life as we discovered our bodies and our sexuality, what is the weirdest solo experiment you tried? (Examples: location you did it in, object you used for pleasure, position you tried, etc.) Be honest with this one. It’s in the past so have fun remembering.
Public questions. Would going into an adult store in person be a challenge for you? What about a strip club? Nude beach?
If you could make love in any location other than a bedroom, where would it be?
Most people at some point have dabbled in porn at some point in their life Either with videos or photos. What was your go to genre?
Name in order, starting with your favorite, 3 things that you enjoy about sex with your partner?
Do you like your partner loud or quiet? If loud, is it moaning? Giving verbal direction or affirmation? Dirty talk?
Do you have a fetish? A fetish is something that is an object or specific thing that triggers a super sexual feeling or response when you see it. Like shoes, or gloves, or feet, silk, leather, etc. How long have you had this? Is it required for you to be excited or satisfied?
How do you feel about watching sexy movies together? R, NC-17, XXX
Are you ok with tasting your partners genital body fluids? What about your own? Do you tolerate or enjoy?
Do you orgasm every time you have sex? Can you have multiple orgasms?
Describe the feeling lead up to orgasm. Describe what your orgasm feels like.
Would you read an erotic story to your partner?
Describe the sexiest thing your partner could wear